It's true that most women really don't respect weak men. Some despise strong men because many women secretly desire to be the leader. This desire comes from the false self. The hypnotic state of sin. It started with Eve in the garden.
Today we are seeing many more weak men. What I mean by WEAK is men who are out of God's order, confused about there identity, do not take responsibility, and have given up there God given leadership. They don't know God, therefore do not have the wisdom to understand what is really going on. They are in a hypnotic state where they are controlled. They are easily deceived. What controls them is definitely the enemy. The level of manipulation going on in the world between people is astounding! One thing is true, an honest & true man or woman cannot be deceived by another human being.
A real man loves God with ALL his heart, mind, soul, and strength. He also loves his neighbor as himself. A real man has died to self. The emotional and lying self talk of the sinful nature. A real man loves from truth and has no fear. Real men understand the nature of women and are not intimidated by them. They understand that if you let women take over, evil will begin to run freely instead of being punished. God gave us the order. God in Christ, Christ in man and man over women. Every place where this order is broken you see confusion and acceptance of all manner of evil.
Men in their fallen state begin to look to women for comfort and strength. They were born of fallen women after all. If the father was absent because of divorce, or weak himself, then the child takes on the nature of the women. Because of sin, the man becomes subject to that which came through Eve from the serpent. They look to the women for comfort, but man was never meant to look to woman, or anything else but God for comfort.
These men inevitably become weak, because through the fallen state have given up truth for pleasure. They allow the women to have her way, just to get along, and get sex. This creates a hidden fight between man and women based in hate. The man gives his power up to the women, and the women gives up here body to get the power. The man hates and plunders the women, and the women eventually hates the man for lack of love. They go on creating there false self's, as a defense, until ultimately each one is destroyed. This ego has a sick pleasure in seeing how it has destroyed the man, and been able to deceive him away from turning to the knowledge of God. Men, we are created to look like God inwardly, and not like Adam, who is of the world.
Marriage In Heaven or Hell
It's Adam and Eve all over again. It's the tree of knowledge of good and evil. The stance that the man comes to the women with, determines if "Eve" will decide to eat of the fruit. The game then starts. Each one determines to give to the other that which will not satisfy. A relationship of sin, which is no relationship at all.
If the man comes to the woman thinking that she is the object of his love, the man clearly does not know what love is. He has learned it from the culture and from the darkness within him which comes from the fallen state. The woman who is fallen is happy to give the man what he wants (her body) for her perceived power and glorification. Like the dictators who demand there pictures be put everywhere to be worshiped.
The woman now demands worship and glorification to give her ego what it wants, but the sacrifice one must give in return brings death. If each were able see the motive from the beginning, they would see that is comes from a place of selfishness, where no love dwells at all. The mans sense of love comes from a place where he must stay asleep to Truth. For if he was to awaken, the game would be over, with all it's lies, deception, anger, and self-gratification. The man's own kind of woman will placate him in his own denial of the truth.
It is only in choosing the tree of life that one can see clearly, overcome sin, and live in love, peace, and joy. One must repent of the egotism that he came into the world with. The egotism that he cannot change himself.
As long as "Adam" looks to "Eve" to satisfy the temperament of his soul, Eve will continue to offer the fruit of the forbidden tree. She does not know any better, and seeks to appease that sin within others, to get along, and stay superficial. She is happy to have the sense of power but what she does not recognize is that the pride she feeds as a puppy, will soon grow into a viscous dog. There is no innocent one in this game of sin for two. The two must become One.
How to treat women
Because of the politically correct culture and unseen strongholds of darkness, women don't here the truth of there unrighteous ways and continue in sin and pride. This culture has taught women to leave God's order and these women no longer have respect for men. They deceive, lie, and manipulate to get power. But this is all from an evil mind and those who follow will be destroyed. What women really want is a man who will tell them to put the fruit down. A man who will love them in truth, not with the lying love the culture has created.
Judgement can be seen effectively in boys who grow up to hate women and treat them badly through sex and violence. These men will use women for sex, and with there anger abuse them. This is a judgement of un-forgiveness because the anger that the children took on separates them from God. Anyone separated from God suffers the judgement of sin and death.
Women are NOT to be treated any differently than you would treat anyone else. All people deserve to be Loved and nothing more. Special treatment creates a false sense of pride and is NOT love at all. Love has to do with absence of self and speaking the truth to one another. The most hated speech is truth speech. The darkness hates the Light but for the darkness condemnation has already come.
Hello, my name is Darren. I am dedicated to sharing my life and giving freely as everything has been given to me.