Here is my take on Solipsism, mixed with some ideas that come from a self study course called "A Course In Miracles"
When you are in the fallen state, all you can do is rebel or conform. You still have the need for something to save you, so the way you do it is through the transference of loyalty, from God to one leader to another. From one guru to another. From one women to another. They give you the approval you seek because in that fallen state you can no longer HEAR the voice of truth within.
Thats what you have, even in the churches. Most of the ministers are hypocrites, they have the words but they don't have the Spirit. Once you transfer your loyalty to them, the teaching spirit within them teaches you, and you learn words, and knowledge which may be right, but you never return to the Spirit which is written on the heart. Your caught up with something or making an idol out of something, instead of returning to the Father. All the ego does is attach to images and idols! Everything you have been taught is only programming and regurgitation in the name of "good".
Even though you are becoming weak as hell, and more disillusioned, the group gives you approval that you are right, so you may never escape, and never really find salvation. Psychotic leaders understand exactly how this all works and for the pride of power, will use it against you, in the name of religion or whatever, to get something out of you, usually money. But you also get something out of them, REASSURANCE. The righteous ministers, who are the only one's sent by God, will not allow you to get caught up with them, and will point you back to the Father, the Kingdom of Heaven within. You can still get caught up with these righteous ministers, because of your immaturity and your inability to let go of false love. Then blame them when things don't go how you planned. Either way, you are responsible for you salvation, and finding your way back home.
Here is a perfect example of what I write about. You have an innocent boy trying to understand why there is lack of love and corruption in others. He recognizes that there is something wrong in the world. Something not quiet right with people. Just as you at one point recognized it, but you lost your innocence when someone violated you and you reacted to them. Innocence is freedom from guilt because you are done needing the world to get love.
The Mother in this clip cannot truly answer the question her son asks, for if she truly "looked at it", she would be overcome with guilt, and see what she has become. She would see the manipulation, the attachments and the games she playing in the name of "love". Denying the denial of truth is the name of the game. So it's on to a new "victim" to get "my" needs met.
The relationship between man and women is predominately cultivated with a "love" that comes from the world. It's a selfish love where each individual is there to secretly get the pleasure they seek. For the most part the women gives a love that enslaves the man. But the man has been conditioned to need that love. It's a love need void of God. It's a worldly love that makes the man need more of her love. The man is not able to see what is happening in the beginning because he is blinded by the lust of pleasure he gets, and the approval that makes him feel like a god. Little does he know that the more love he takes from her the weaker he becomes, and the more authority the women has over him. The authority she does have makes her hate him for his weakness, and not giving her what she really needs. This loving and hating relationship is born in sin.
The man most likely had a mother who did the same thing to his father, and therefore he was infected and sought out the same love from his wife. It's the only love he has ever known, the love of the world. One day though he wakes up in horror, lifeless though he is, and all used up, realizing he married his mother. He hates his wife for the love she gives because he senses something else behind her, something dark. He begins to pull away and become distant. If he has a daughter the relationship with her is mostly non-existent. The only love this man has ever know is a worldly love, so he has nothing to give. He can only push her away.
His daughter, never getting the love she needs, will resent and hate here father, but the resentment she holds needs one to resent to be complete in it's hatred. She finds a man just like her father and it begins all over again. Love and hate, hate and love. So the love of the world, while disguising itself as truth, is motivated by the lie. It comes in many forms of niceness, and appeasement. It does make one feel justified in there sin when someone loves you just as you are. This game hides the guilt away for a time until God's call for repentance brings the pain snapping back to the ever present reality of your nothingness. Never receiving any correction causes one to become ever worse in there sin, and there is always a "friend" to support you in it. You make sure to surround yourself with those who tell you nothing else.
To stop this cycle of guilt and sin one must overcome evil with good. So you have to begin with your reaction to the supplier of your love and hate. You must not resent the one who tempts you. You have to begin to become aware of when it is happening. You are trapped in an emotional game that your tyrant now has control over you with. They themselves only have a limited power, from taking your power, but they themselves are still enslaved to sin. There is a dark force behind the whole game that is using them. What we want is the power of God to break this cycle, and God has given us the power through the Holy Spirit.
It is your intuitive means to freedom from sin and death. He that is within you will awaken you back to the nature of truth and real love. Just by recognizing where you are weak and where you have chosen to doubt (losing your innocence) becoming guilty, a new world begins to form as the dark illusions fall away. You have forgotten God and made other forms outside yourself into god's. The kingdom of heaven is within and not without, so stop trusting in doubt. You are believing in yourself, and the self you create needs doubtful pleasure and reassurance from without that what is not real is real. This self conforms continually to the fallen nature with many lying angels along the path to give you the answer you seek. To find faith in doubt.
You cannot say "No" to your tyrant for this would lead to certain end of the false love you want. When you do awaken you will be able to say no to your manipulator (husband or wife) and in doing so correct the inherent wrong within the other. The man needs to correct the wife when she attempts to tempt him with this love, or if the wife is somewhat awake can show the man how to stop tempting her to tempt him with the need for false love. When the man stops using the women for his selfish nature then he is able to rescue the women from her own dark fallen nature. All the teasing and tempting she does is only a cry to be set free from the power of the dark side. Now the women is free from the serpent to serve the God nature she see's in her husband. A godly woman is gifted with insight and recognizes the benefit of serving this God nature which comes through the husband. A godly woman is attracted to a man like her and in serving him she does not betray herself.
Now you can see that all relationships born of the world are about placing stumbling blocks in one another's way, as to make sure that neither one may come to the truth. You play good, and nice and appease and look for acceptance but are never honest enough to see that love is part of patience and not manipulation.
So it's your choice to choose if you want to recognize the truth one day when your old, fat, wrinkled and the love of the world as chewed you up and spit you out (getting exactly what you deserve). Or choose the love that comes from wisdom that leads to righteousness. When you seek God first all these other things will be added unto you and rightly so.
It's true that most women really don't respect weak men. Some despise strong men because many women secretly desire to be the leader. This desire comes from the false self. The hypnotic state of sin. It started with Eve in the garden.
Today we are seeing many more weak men. What I mean by WEAK is men who are out of God's order, confused about there identity, do not take responsibility, and have given up there God given leadership. They don't know God, therefore do not have the wisdom to understand what is really going on. They are in a hypnotic state where they are controlled. They are easily deceived. What controls them is definitely the enemy. The level of manipulation going on in the world between people is astounding! One thing is true, an honest & true man or woman cannot be deceived by another human being.
A real man loves God with ALL his heart, mind, soul, and strength. He also loves his neighbor as himself. A real man has died to self. The emotional and lying self talk of the sinful nature. A real man loves from truth and has no fear. Real men understand the nature of women and are not intimidated by them. They understand that if you let women take over, evil will begin to run freely instead of being punished. God gave us the order. God in Christ, Christ in man and man over women. Every place where this order is broken you see confusion and acceptance of all manner of evil.
Men in their fallen state begin to look to women for comfort and strength. They were born of fallen women after all. If the father was absent because of divorce, or weak himself, then the child takes on the nature of the women. Because of sin, the man becomes subject to that which came through Eve from the serpent. They look to the women for comfort, but man was never meant to look to woman, or anything else but God for comfort.
These men inevitably become weak, because through the fallen state have given up truth for pleasure. They allow the women to have her way, just to get along, and get sex. This creates a hidden fight between man and women based in hate. The man gives his power up to the women, and the women gives up here body to get the power. The man hates and plunders the women, and the women eventually hates the man for lack of love. They go on creating there false self's, as a defense, until ultimately each one is destroyed. This ego has a sick pleasure in seeing how it has destroyed the man, and been able to deceive him away from turning to the knowledge of God. Men, we are created to look like God inwardly, and not like Adam, who is of the world.
Marriage In Heaven or Hell
It's Adam and Eve all over again. It's the tree of knowledge of good and evil. The stance that the man comes to the women with, determines if "Eve" will decide to eat of the fruit. The game then starts. Each one determines to give to the other that which will not satisfy. A relationship of sin, which is no relationship at all.
If the man comes to the woman thinking that she is the object of his love, the man clearly does not know what love is. He has learned it from the culture and from the darkness within him which comes from the fallen state. The woman who is fallen is happy to give the man what he wants (her body) for her perceived power and glorification. Like the dictators who demand there pictures be put everywhere to be worshiped.
The woman now demands worship and glorification to give her ego what it wants, but the sacrifice one must give in return brings death. If each were able see the motive from the beginning, they would see that is comes from a place of selfishness, where no love dwells at all. The mans sense of love comes from a place where he must stay asleep to Truth. For if he was to awaken, the game would be over, with all it's lies, deception, anger, and self-gratification. The man's own kind of woman will placate him in his own denial of the truth.
It is only in choosing the tree of life that one can see clearly, overcome sin, and live in love, peace, and joy. One must repent of the egotism that he came into the world with. The egotism that he cannot change himself.
As long as "Adam" looks to "Eve" to satisfy the temperament of his soul, Eve will continue to offer the fruit of the forbidden tree. She does not know any better, and seeks to appease that sin within others, to get along, and stay superficial. She is happy to have the sense of power but what she does not recognize is that the pride she feeds as a puppy, will soon grow into a viscous dog. There is no innocent one in this game of sin for two. The two must become One.
How to treat women
Because of the politically correct culture and unseen strongholds of darkness, women don't here the truth of there unrighteous ways and continue in sin and pride. This culture has taught women to leave God's order and these women no longer have respect for men. They deceive, lie, and manipulate to get power. But this is all from an evil mind and those who follow will be destroyed. What women really want is a man who will tell them to put the fruit down. A man who will love them in truth, not with the lying love the culture has created.
Judgement can be seen effectively in boys who grow up to hate women and treat them badly through sex and violence. These men will use women for sex, and with there anger abuse them. This is a judgement of un-forgiveness because the anger that the children took on separates them from God. Anyone separated from God suffers the judgement of sin and death.
Women are NOT to be treated any differently than you would treat anyone else. All people deserve to be Loved and nothing more. Special treatment creates a false sense of pride and is NOT love at all. Love has to do with absence of self and speaking the truth to one another. The most hated speech is truth speech. The darkness hates the Light but for the darkness condemnation has already come.
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